It’s time for another edition of Friday Dance Party here on Acorns On Glen. It’s the time where we give thanks for making it through another week and for being alive and present here on Earth. How do we celebrate another week of living? We dance. So, are you alive this Friday? Are you and your family safe and sound? Take a few seconds now to be in the moment and realize what a great life you truly have. Did you give thanks for that?
Good, now let’s dance.
“You’re a prima donna.” I looked at my co-worker with a look of surprise and disgust on my face. This is not the first time I have ever heard this in my life after I have responded that I am not going to do something and, let’s be honest, I always wonder if you can even call a man a prima donna. My surprise (and disgust) is always based on the fact that I don’t think I am too spoiled in any way. It’s just that I am fairly certain of what I want to do in my life and what I don’t want to do and I am not afraid to express my thoughts, even if my thoughts are unpopular. I’m ok with saying “no”. So let’s back up. I got into this predicament because a group of people who I work with asked me if I would go with a large group of employees on a route ride. In its simplest definition, a route ride is where you ride around with a delivery person in their big truck and deliver product to customers all day. Doing this helps you understand the company’s business better, or so they say. Let me clarify even further….you drive around in a big truck delivering product and:
- You start around 5:30 AM,
- You end your day at around 6:30 – 7:00 PM,
- You are asked to dress similar to the polyester uniforms my company makes the drivers wear,
- The product you deliver is heavy and bulky,
- You sweat a lot and get very, very dirty,
- The temperature is 90+ degrees,
- It is humid, and
- I am sure the cab on the truck is not air-conditioned.
I could go on further, but I think you get the picture. So let me ask you, “Would you do it?” Why is someone who says “no” to things in their life viewed as difficult, bitchy, grouchy or a prima donna? Why wouldn’t they be called confident, self-aware, in touch or assured? It’s not like I’m saying I wouldn’t donate blood to a sick child. I’m just saying no to a ride in a delivery truck. Do you think that knowing what you want in today’s world is taken as a blessing or as a curse? Why is saying what you really feel taken as a negative thing versus a positive one? Is it really being a prima donna or is it just being true to yourself? Enough ranting…. let’s start dancing. We’ve made it through another week and it’s time for us to give thanks. The song this week is ‘Primadonna’ by Marina and the Diamonds. Can the song be any more appropriate? Celebrate life and get to dancing. Start now…..I mean it…..shake it….remember, I’m a prima donna and I always get what I want!